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A wife, recently, pulled her husband’s sexual orientation out in the open. It made headlines and more so, made us dread pink. In a country, where marriages aren’t anymore for ever, another marriage failed for a reason that ain’t completely unknown.
Women and men both have suffered in silence in the past too but never before headlines were made out of it. What happens between a husband and wife in bed was entirely personal! Though you can wash your dirty linens in public but you can’t talk about love even in private. The wife in this case suffered and so did the husband. Who suffered most, well, that isn’t the biggest question. Question is why suffer when it could have been completely sorted by opening-up? Pardon me, if two strangers do strip and get intimate when they spend the first night after marriage, what is the big deal about talking?
Agreed, homosexuality isn’t a good topic but let it not be nice if it can save lives from misery and failure. Isn’t it better to speak up rather than come up with excuses all your life?
• I’ve a bad headache/tired
• I am so stressed with work
• I need some time to relax
• I am the shy types give me more time
And aggravates to:
• You’re always horny and just need one thing from me
• You aren’t attractive enough
• You should have married somebody else
What’s worse is that you just kill the person’s confidence to start all over. Fine, our society (include parents too) can’t take your truth but the truth can be shared with the person who’s going to be living with it.
Your life is yours and you’re free to live the way you want till it doesn’t involve another life. Speak up because talking always help. If you can’t talk to all atleast try talking to the person affected most.


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