Thursday, September 26, 2013
Tit for Tat
Once upon a time, women in relationships wanted commitment read marriage here. They were scared that the man will soon dump her for other greener pastures and she will be left with,”log kya kahenge?”
Maybe the sex ratio was healthier then and there were more choices for men. Maybe we were slightly more in number; maybe we never tasted real freedom then. Maybe neighbours were too nosy then.
Men had their share of fun and wandered freely, not that they have stopped wandering now. Habits are difficult to change, hence, don’t expect a drastic change anytime sooner.
The tables are turning now. So men, be prepared to get a taste of your own medicine. With depleting sex ratio and increasing financial independence of the fairer sex, watch out guys!
The women of the present, is as commitment phobic as men from the past. They love sex like men, would not hesitate to bed you. But that is exactly what they need sometimes. One night stands, flings have flooded the vocabulary of the modern women. They love everything that is easy to love in life, mostly expensive (I must mention). They love their jobs, career but most importantly they love their freedom. So pleasure is important but not at the price of marriage, in many cases. They never shy away from dumping you because they know they are fewer in numbers. One goes, the other is bound to come knocking down. So nothing but the best will do for them.
Oops! Is it scary? Indeed, if I was a man of the today’s time. Knowing that the competition is fierce, scarcity is real so obviously would try to cling and ensure that atleast one is guaranteed through marriage. But the moment, you utter the magic words, she disappears.
Things are harsher for you, guys! Times are changing and maybe this is the payback time!
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if bollywood were to make a movie out of your blog post, the title would be - JAISI KARNI WAISI BHARNI :D
ReplyDelete@ ritika: maybe AB WAQT HAMARA HAI, what say?
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